The Sexy Boutique Journal

Guides, reviews & new arrivals

Honest advice from our Melbourne team: how to choose, how to use and what’s new in store.

Low Libido in Women: Hormones, Stress and Getting Desire Back

Why desire changes, what responsive desire is, common reasons for low libido and practical ways to feel more in the mood.

21 Oct 2026 4 min read

Why menopause causes dryness, the difference between lube and vaginal moisturiser, gentle products to choose and when to see your GP.

21 Oct 2026 4 min read

Why orgasm can be difficult, why clitoral stimulation matters, practical tips and toys that help, and when to get support.

21 Oct 2026 4 min read

What causes erection problems, when to see your GP, and how couples can stay intimate in the meantime.

21 Oct 2026 5 min read

Why men come sooner than they would like, techniques like stop-start that really help, and when to see a GP.

21 Oct 2026 5 min read

Why sex can hurt, what helps straight away, how to choose a gentle lube, and when to see a GP or physio.

21 Oct 2026 4 min read

What to expect on your first visit to an adult store, how to ask for help, and how to find our Carrum…

18 Oct 2026 3 min read

How to measure for condoms, what the SAX size numbers mean, latex-free options and which lube to use.

18 Oct 2026 3 min read

How to start exploring bondage safely: talking first, safe words, beginner gear and simple safety rules.

18 Oct 2026 3 min read

Strap-on sets, harnesses and strapless styles explained, plus how to choose the right size and fit.

18 Oct 2026 3 min read